以关心老婆为荣，以忽视老婆为耻。以伺候老婆为荣，以麻烦老婆为耻。
以赞美老婆为荣，以批评老婆为耻。以抢干家务为荣，以好逸恶老为耻。
以下班回家为荣，以夜不归宿为耻。以诚实专一为荣，以沾花惹草为耻。
以遵守家法为荣，以违法乱纪为耻。以上缴工资为荣，以窝藏奖金为耻。 

 

以想念我为荣，

以忽略我为耻，

以关心我为荣，

以不理我为耻，

以赞美我为荣，

以批评我为耻，

以请我吃饭为荣，

以找理由推托为耻。

请严格要求自己。

：）

10:30 pm 29th Oct 2006

The car was cursing on the East 2nd Ring after 10pm that day, suddenly I saw a man facing down lying on the slow lane of the main road, my heart was shocked. Why? Maybe I have never been so close to a man that could be dead in my life.

There were no car parked around him, no other man standing around him, he was just lying there quietly without any movements, straight like someone just put him there.  Many car drove pass him but none stopped. Shall I put one more description on this man, he was dressed up like a low level labourer.  Should that be the reason no one stopped for him? Will one rescue another base on he/her classes?  This might be reason why I was deeply touched.

  How much do you value a life?  

  I ask myself this question. Could he be badly injured, dead already or could he be just drunk. That is not the question I should find out, I just knew in my heart that not matter what, it was my responsibility to at least call for help, because this is a matter related to "life and death". I can't imagine in 10 years time I will be still felling guilty cause I could be the person to safe his life. 

  I picked up my phone and dialed 122. I wasn't there to wait for the police to come but I told them the place where they can find him.    

  “世态炎凉，人情淡漠”？不管怎样，“多管闲事”的我打了电话。为什么？ 可能是想到如果我有一天像他一样趴在路边时，也希望有个路人会为我打个求助电话吧。